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i think you need to establish what you think hate is..
on the flip side how do you know those 'others' arent hating with reputable arguments yet they dont want to express those 'facts' because it will only be construed as negative or excessively negative?
with regards to postings being 'ignorant'
lets use the above as an example; "if anybody got opinions, they should drop it. THIS IS A FORUM"
for one, a forum is for discussion of ideas and opinions. ideas and opinions can be of any part of the idealogical spectrum, be it good or bad - bottom line theyre differing opinions. So right there is a faulty argument. I know of no forum, be it in person or online, that people come to meet and share the SAME opinions. A community, culture, business etc THRIVES on differing opinions. It is only their CUSTOMS which remain the same in the group and which hold them together.
Also, I was simply debating your truism of when someone is famous they get hated on. People who hate have certain characteristics to their lives, nor do I think they will get anywhere in the long term. On the flip side, and from experience Ive seen people hate for no reason at all, deeming that a person does not have to be 'famous' to 'receive' hate.
If want constructive criticism then maybe you shouldve made an open request to all forum users as to why people think you arent so good. Then in accordance, read all posts without emotional reply.
Furthermore, I could make various instances as to why people may think you guys arent so good. But Im not gonna do that. Making a post of that sort would seem to onlookers as what you term 'hate'. Also, Im not your dad or your coach so telling you what exactly I think you should do is not my responsibility.
What I do see in your clip is exceptional technical ability and it can only get better. Only your will to battle and improve can change those haters' view and hearts.
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on a side note (which ill probably start my own thread) -
People think that just by posting things humans should always be supportive and post only positive things.
That in itself is a common flaw. I can agree that that is an excellent ideal for all online users, yet it is not reality. Anyone who is against any type of criticism, be it constructive or otherwise, is against change. A person cant passively ask for an opinion (i.e. posting a video) then whole heartedly agree that they dont like it. Any subject posted in any thread is subject to anyones opinion. A person that isnt able to read those replies and accept them is plainly stubborn and is not apt to teach others.
I may post several comments which may seem negative, but Im not a negative person. Likewise I may post many positive comments, but comments made online can only boost ego and esteem. Hence the 'fame' people may feel when finally recognized. Fame does nothing for the greater good of an aspiring bboy. I would much rather tell a person a compliment in person, not online.
My candid (or blunt) behaviour in my posts is my way of letting people know whats up. Many are the users (as well as bboys) that cannot simply take criticism in any form. And that goes for all walks of human life.
Those are the ones walking away from battles or situations always saying they won or theyre right - regardless of outcome. Those kinds of people to me are the worst kind and are very susceptible to catching a negative or hating behaviour. Those my friend, are the people you should look out for...
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